HELP!!!

um k im kinda new to dis discussion fing sooo yea, newae, heas da deal. ma mate is a strong believer in the Lord. He goes to church, is in the worship team and attends like everyfng christian. But Hes GAY. in wasnt that obvious when i first met him, n during that time, you cud tell that he was trying really hard to b straight. but suddenly, dont know wat changed, hes going owt wif Boys, not really having meaningful relationships but jus jumping from 1 guy to another. im really woried about him and i dont know wat to sAE to him??? pleez help guys, im not sure wat to du, coz i care about him n i dont want him to lose his relationship with God.
thanks
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Permalink Reply by EsThEr on October 1, 2009 at 3:44am: thanks Jessica, yea i kno it will be hard bt YEA God is wae bigger than this so im jus gona wait in Him. thankuuuu. xx; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by EsThEr on October 2, 2009 at 2:55am: nah dat totally helps kayla! thanks lol its jus hard coz i do love him but i want him to stop thinking that its too hard fo him. pleez pray fo me kayla! thanks once again; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Rahul Mathews on November 6, 2009 at 5:21am: Jesus loves ur mate just de wy he is,childhood problems might be a root cause for him being a Gay like sexual abuse or there might ve ben sm particular incident in his life which caused an aversion towards the opp sx.yeah..we're living in the last days where the Bible says that men will be lovers of themselves.Try asking Him about his past and pray yearnestly for him.It's all in the mind,nw that he's nt satisfied wt a particular partner is wt which is making him jump from one person to another.All this will eventually lead to depression and a sense of guilt.Reassurance is a must.Fast and pray for him and tell him about the consequences which he has to face be it medically like AIDS,Epstein Barr Virus infections,syphilis and so on...or otherwise..Tell him that his conduct should never become an hindrance for someone to accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and personal saviour,yeah..itstrue that satan will tempt us,but in James 1 Jesus says that we will not be tempted beyond wt we could bear,ask him to wake up early in the morning to pray for the HolySpirit especially for the gift of discretion and SELF-CONTROL,which is a gift of the HolySpirit and it works,tell him that all of us have to give an account of ourselves to God.I wld suggest that he consults a CHRISTIAN Psychiatrist and tell his condition.it'l help him to come out of satan's clutches.The Bible says,"Rebuke the devil and he'l flee from you.".so,nw that satan has preyed on his weakness,we've to rebuke satan to leave him.i'l pray for him too..gift him the bio or auto biographies of ppl..; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Mitchell Morris on November 6, 2009 at 4:47pm: you don't lose your salvation and relationship with God you will have consequences now and at judgement like when i look up porn i will doubt my salvation and get depressed and will lose my rewards now and in Heaven; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Todd on November 6, 2009 at 10:25pm: You need to tell him to turn back to God. Repent of his sins and keep his eyes on the Lord. God can restore his God given nature if he keeps his eyes on him. It all starts with lusts in the heart and if lust is not being taken care of then his God cannot restore his nature. And pray for him, because God hears.; ▶ Reply to This